Working with Anger and Young People

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Forgiving people does not mean you have to accept their behavior. Other responses include withdrawal, self-attack, avoidance or shame deficiency.

In managing our anger as well as exploring the triggers, reactions, responses and impact it is having. We recommend taking time to help your client identify their earliest warning signs of anger that might be less obvious and more difficult to recognize, so they can cut off aggression before it has an opportunity to take over. Others are all short term solution which will not yield results beyond a point. Then, I can ask what positive thing would you like to do with this energy?

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Feeling anger and aggression When we feel an injustice has occurred, if we have been unheard and our needs unmet, we may feel angry. If we feel threatened or anxious, we can become angry. Anger can be useful as a defence and as a way of recognising when something affects us. Anger can become problematic when it occurs frequently and disproportionately or turned in on ourselves and when it becomes destructive to our relationships. Whether or not this anger is directed at ourselves, others, or working with anger in counselling we are unable to articulate it and express it appropriately, how we do or don't can be problematic. Anger can impact our mental health in various ways, affecting ourincreasing our levels, exacerbating existing mental health issues, affect your sense of self-esteem. Anger can also affect your physical health. How our anger affects us and others Recognising the impact your anger is having on your self and others is a useful stepping stone towards change. It may be worthwhile thinking about, how you express your anger, what triggers your anger, any previous and current experiences which may relate to this. Anger has a lot to do with the way we perceive certain situations, which probably relates in some way to our own past and present experiences and how we have experienced anger previously. Exploring these perceptions and our sense of our previous and present experiences can be necessary for change. In managing our anger as well as exploring the triggers, reactions, responses and impact it is having. Consider: what may be done differently. What does being angry do for you. What are the consequences of being angry. Consider the impact on you and others. Look at the inner beliefs, attitudes, values and expectations you have, where might these thoughts have developed and come from, such as 'life's not fair or you never listen. As well as providing a safe, non-judgemental and explorative space. You may also be able to express and experience new ways of being and may find creative avenues in exploring and expressing your anger. You may find that being taught various techniques could be beneficial in the space counselling offers. Creating changes in your view of self and others, leading to a better understanding and awareness. About I have a background in counselling and psychotherapy, social science and in healthcare with a broad range of experience in both adult and adolescent mental health. Can also offer online appointments.

A therapist first tries to know the source where the emotion of anger is stemming from. If your anger seems to be building, remove yourself from the situation for a few minutes and do something else — take a brisk walk, listen to some music, or try your relaxation techniques. Cognitive distortions that lead to all-or-nothing thinking can challenge the client who experiences a lapse. Help from an anger management counselor or group therapy sessions can go along way in helping an individual improve their quality of life. In fact, between 50% and 90% of clients who are successful in the reduction of overeating, smoking and other problem eventually relapse. But anger can also inspire fear in others, whether at home, in our workplaces or in our communities.